internally contradictory:

the greatest compliment should not be to enumerate all those little quirks which i love,  but to ask questions about all those things of which i am curious. dont let me spell out the things i know, let me marvel at your depth and hint at my attentive observation by asking about the things i dont - it’s finding out about the  unknowns that turns me on, they are what keep me coming back.

There is a game i play. I am infinitely curious, and i see the exploration of that curiosity as a purely intellectual excercise. I want to know - everything - what i do which you find seductive, what i do which you don’t, what you would do for me, with me, with somebody else, what the things i could not, physically, experience feel like, what the things i could physically experience feel like for you. I maintain the veneer that this is a purely objective study.