purchase
i posit that intimacy is not indicated by penetration even though that is is what usually symbolizes unity, but instead by what it is which provides the purchase. While looking down at you, biceps tensed in support, our bodies in contact in only two places, it is actually the other one, the hand pressed down on your wrist which makes me feel closer to you. when behind you, buried (to borrow the cliche) it’s the palm fit to the contour of your waist, pulling your hip, the other hand grabbing your hair, bending your neck to 90 degrees, and the psychological impact they have, which provide the most pleasure. when I’m wrapped around your back, that slow pressing thrust, it is actually the arm around your chest, the flesh of breast and nipple squeezed between fingers, which brings us close.